5 Ways to Know If Your Style “Expired”?

Everything in life has a  shelf life-the time when it no longer tastes good, looks good or works for you.  Credit cards “expire” so why don’t we think that our clothes expire?

When was the last time that you took a good hard look at your hair style or  the clothes in your closet?

I wish that manufacturers would put an expiration date on our clothes!  I understand when your clothes are “well-loved”, worn to just to the right softness and the feel really good against your body.  But, honestly, how do we know if our clothes have ‘expired’?

To see if your clothes  may have passed their prime, check in with these tips:

  1. Just because the 80′s look is back doesn’t mean that “old” jacket you had still works.
  2. Is the fabric shiny from dry cleaning?  Fabric does expire (wear out)
  3. Check the heel and toe of your shoes.  Out-dated shoes will date your outfit.
  4. Are you still wearing a “Farrah Fawcett” hairstyle (shag)? News flash it has expired.
  5. Be careful when you are matching denim, it is coming back but it can look very dated on a mature woman.

The 80′s fashion is having a revival of sorts and if you have already been in that decade, I caution you to proceed with a great deal TLC.  Once your clothes are past their prime and you are over the age of 30 you stand the real risk of looking OL (old lady).

If you are one of those who like to keep clothes forever because it will come back in style you  need to be especially cautious!  When styles come back, they NEVER come back exactly in the same way.  If you keep a piece make sure it is a classic piece from that decade NOT a trendy piece from that decade.

Now that we are ending a season, it is the perfect time to assess what worked and what didn’t.  If they didn’t work, move them out of your closet and out of your sight.  Click here for closet cleaning tips to help you get going.  Hope springs eternal with less duds in your closet and remember……

“Look Good, Feel Great & Have FUN Doing It!”

Danger Zones Lurking in Your Closet

It’s been pretty cold here in the southeast this winter especially since the holidays have left their distant memory. I usually relax my guard after the holidays  under the shroud of my winter woolies. Besides, no on will see my body in a bathing suit for a few months, right? Beware, there are dangers lurking in your closet when you hibernate beneath baggy, saggy, sloppy unfitted clothes.

I’ve seen a lot of problems in closets over the years, but there seems to be 3 zones that creep up time and time again. Each of these alone are not really a problem. It’s only when they are made together that it presents disaster for a wardrobe.

  1. Pattern Malfunction
  2. Fit faux pas
  3. Trend Trouble

Most people don’t get it all wrong.  There are consistent mis-steps along the way until they are way off and confusion sets in .  Having true style means that you understand who you are from top to bottom.

You know the patterns that work for your body.  You understand how to fit the lines of your body to create harmony and you follow the trends adapting only those that work for your style personality.

Follow us as we talk about how to eliminate these danger zones and create a great wardrobe for the life you lead.

“Look Good, Feel Great and Have FUN Doing It!”

10 Things to Know Before You Hire an Image Consultant

The advent of “What Not To Wear”, “America’s Next Top Model” and “Project Runway” has heightened awareness of  personal appearance.  That’s the good news.  The not so good news is that “everyone” seems to think they are a personal stylist.

The challenge for the consumer is to know what to expect from a “personal stylist” or Image Consultant/Coach.  An important distinction should be made between the two.

A Stylist is often someone who has a “passion” for fashion, a talent or skills in creating a “look”.  This doesn’t necessarily mean that this person has been formally trained in all aspects of your physical appearance.  Most stylists will bill you at an hourly rate.

An Image Consultant, more specifically, a Certified Image Consultant is someone who has been through an education path that will equip them to create a “look” that you desire in addition to helping you develop a “personal brand” image.  Most Image Consultants, specifically Certified Image Consultants will bill in a number of different ways (hourly, day or package rate).  Services may include color analysis, closet audits, style analysis, education, shopping, personal branding, etc.

If you are in search of a personal shopper, very often a Stylist will accomplish your needs quite well.  But, if you are struggling with your wardrobe, “who” you really are and want to propel yourself to the next level in business, a life change, or want to reach greater goals, I encourage you to consider interviewing a Certified Image Consultant.

I work as a Style and Certified Image Consultant/Coach, and have been formally trained in all aspects of your personal image.  My passion is to help you reach your unique style and equip you with the knowledge to build the wardrobe to support the lifestyle you lead.

Approach your partnership with a Stylist/Image Consultant just as you would any other contractor and do your research:

  1. Interview at least 3 individuals
  2. Are they willing to meet with you prior to working with you?
  3. Is there synergy between you and the Stylist/Consultant?
  4. Does the Stylist/Consultant truly understand your needs?
  5. Do you want a plan of action?
  6. Are you looking for a “personal shopper”?
  7. Do you know “why” you would like to engage a Stylist/Consultant?
  8. What is your time-frame?
  9. What are YOUR expectations of the Stylist/Consultant?
  10. Finally, do you have a budget?

Working with a Stylist/Image Consultant can and should be a grand experience.  Both Stylists AND Certified Image Consultants add value to your life.  The experience working with either should begin a partnership that opens your eyes to great potential and possibilities in you.  Do your homework and you will:

“Look Good, Feel Great and Have FUN Doing It!”

Are Leggings Right For YOU?

Well, I hate to say it but YES the 80′s are BAAAAACK! My daughter was born in the 80′s so you can “guess” about how old I am.  I “think” I remember wearing them then, but wait NO, that was when I was doing the “Dress for Success” thing!

I did dress my daughter in them and they worked great for her.  She was tiny and they were actually the only thing that fit her little body.  She looked “cute”.  Always paired with an over-sized sweatshirt, everything look great and was neat and tidy!  I think this was about the time “Fresh Produce” was introduced.

So maybe you’ve worn them once, should you wear them again?  Hmmmm, well let’s take you through a few do’s and don’ts and maybe you can work a little magic this time!  I’ll let you decide how good you look in them, but remember,  just because it is the trend doesn’t mean that YOU have to adapt to it.

Ask yourself this question:  “Do you want to look cute or stylish?”  Remember I said that my daughter looked “cute”.  It reminds me of when a Realtor says that a house looks “cute”.  I like a beach front cottage to be cute, but not my home!

Am I going to wear them?  Hmmmm, maybe around the house, outside, probably not!  Next up……shoulder pads!

DO:

  1. Do pay attention to proportion.
  2. Please do cover your hiney!
  3. You can wear a short dress or long sweater over leggings
  4. Wear cute ballet flats or platform heels
  5. Throw on an over-sized cuff or bangle to bring interest above the waist

DON’T:

  1. Wear a tight or short top/shirt (it’s that proportion thing again)
  2. No chunky, clunky or athletic shoes
  3. Definitely NOT appropriate for work
  4. If you didn’t wear them in the 80′s there’s probably a good reason NOT to wear them now!

“Look Good, Feel Great and Have FUN Doing It!”


Mistake Women Make-Color, Style or Size/Fit?

Several weeks ago I posted a poll question to the community.  I asked the following question:

What do you think the mistake women make most is?

I wanted to know if you felt that women make their purchasing mistakes by choosing:

  • Wrong Color
  • Wrong Style
  • Wrong Size/Fit

What do you think the answers were?  Many people initially felt that it was the wrong color.  Then the number began to change most people felt that women made most of their mistakes when purchasing wrong SIZE.

Here are the “official” results:

  • Wrong Size 47%
  • Wrong Style 45%
  • Wrong Color 8%

Now I will tell you what I think. I believe that most people come to adulthood not getting their color “all wrong”.  If they are listening to those around them they know generally a color “family” that is o.k.  They may not get it exactly right, but it’s not all wrong.

I believe that women will forever buy a size either for comfort or because of the number on the label and wear it regardless of whether or not it looks good.

I believe that a woman will NOT wear something that is not the right STYLE for them.  Yes, they will buy it but they will put it on and take it off again because it just doesn’t “feel” right.  They may not know why because the color and the size might be right.  The STYLE is ALL WRONG!

That’s why I say:  COLOR, STYLE, FIT….it has to be all right to have it all good.  There you have it, my “unscientific” poll of woman’s fashion sense!

“Look Good, Feel Great, and Have FUN Doing It!”

Day #15 in the PINK-Gain Clarity in Your Closet

DSCN1944Day #15 in the Pink.  I’m tired of the rain here in Atlanta.  Did we switch places with Seattle?  I know we needed it but now our lakes are at full capacity (not having been so since 2005) so can it just stop for awhile yet?  

Layering again today.  My soft pink sweater with a white shirt underneath.  I feel a little dull with this on so I’m going to spice it up with a scarf and some jewelry to make more of a statement.  Think about that next time you look in the mirror and things just aren’t “right”.  Try to add some depth with accessories.  I guess that’s one good thing about the rain, it feels a little chilly and layering works.  I have to share with you this photo!

Lisa Brattin Closet1Today I get to meet a client at the hair salon.  I am excited.  When I suggested gaining clarity in her closet, little did I know that it would mean this.  BOTH carts are hers.  She told me that not only did it fill up the back of her large vehicle it also sat next to her on the front seat! That’s what I call “purging”!  I asked her if she felt “free”.  She stated:  “you said it would be cathartic and it is….I still have things to get rid of”…  Goodwill is happy!

What’s still in your closet that you need to remove?  Are you hanging on to things that have no place anymore in your life much less your closet???  Get it out and see how you feel afterwards. To get some great closet cleaning tips just check out Closet Cleaning 101.

Don’t forget TOMORROW is the last day to sign up for Style Camp.  You can still register to come.  It’s the last one for 2009

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Day #9 in the Pink

DSCN1942My creative juices are running purple these days NOT PINK!  If you have been keeping up with me on FaceBook you know that I have been shopping for the trends this season and Pink is definitely not the “IT” color.  Purple is everywhere. 

This pink is a bit “out there” for me, but when I put it on, it kind of feels fun!  I’m going to wear this with my new  Frye Boots-what do you think?  Shall I post a photo later and see???

What do you do if  purple is not your color and you want to stay on trend, what can you do?  Well, you can get a scarf, belt or a necklace.  Hey, even a pair of cool purple suede pumps would ROCK. 

Color has the greatest impact when it is right next to your skin/face.  So, make sure that the color you are wearing reflects positively (makes you feel great) when you wear it.  If you have to ask yourself “does it”, then it probably doesn’t.

So today, I am getting all the donations that were given at Trends with Friends event this week together and sending them off to Dress for Success.  I can’t tell you what fabulous accessories were donated. Maybe next season we’ll do an Accessory Swap as well as a donation?  You know if you bought something and don’t really like it, why not exchange it for something that works for you??  What do you think?

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Diary of a New Hair Style

It’s the beginning of a new season.  The phone is ringing and the email box is full….Everyone wants an update, a change, something new.  Me Too!  I have worn the same haircut or variation of the same style (short) for the past few years-it seems like forever. 

I’m always telling people that one of the best things you can do for yourself to update your look, feel younger and more vibrant is to update your hairstyle.  For many reasons, I like  change-it’s interesting.  So, because it is a new season, I went to my hairstylist and began a discussion with her about changing my style.

This started the end of  July, after I returned from vacation.  I wanted something new.  We began.  She suggested that I begin the process of growing out the layers.  Have you ever tried to grow out your layers? Your bangs?  It is difficult to have any sense of style in doing so.  Patience,  creativity and alot of product is key.  

I was good for the first few trims, but last week just about did me in.  I have alot of  hair and it absorbs all the moisture in the air.  With the rain here in Atlanta over the past month, my hair has grown a mind of its own.

I knew I was in trouble when my son (always the honest observer) told me that my hair looked like something out of the 80′s.  I told him, that was the “style” right now.  (I didn’t mention that it was the style in clothing-not hair!)  I phoned my hairstylist on Wednesday night in frustration and left a message that if I didn’t get it soon, I was going to cut my “mullet” off.  Fortunately, she called the next morning as said I had scheduled an appointment for Friday. 

Friday came, the “mullet” came off and I have a reprieve for another 4 weeks.  She encouraged me that we were almost there.  “Where” I ask is “there”?  Well, we almost have enough hair to cut into a new style.  So, this much I know is true:

  1. If you want a totally new hairstyle it will take at leat 3 months of fussy patience and checking in with the salon IF you have layers or short hair.
  2. You have to have ENOUGH hair to actually cut to make a difference.
  3. Patience is strategic and systematic check in’s with the salon (at least every 4 weeks) during the process.
  4. Different styling products are imperative (you may need lighter products to begin with and heavier more controlling products toward the end of the cycle)
  5. Focus on the end result and try not to fight mother nature.  If you have wavy hair, sometimes it is best just to go with it while it is growing.

So, perhaps when we meet again after my next styling session, you’ll get to see the final “do”.  I’ll take a few snaps, but only after it’s finally finished so you can see the process/progress and you can tell me what you think!  Until then,  you know I want you to:

“Look good, feel great, and have fun doing it!”

 

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VMA Style Posts – Monday Morning Style

 

#1 VMA Dress Winner Beyonce

   The ever gracious performer Beyonce did it again with her style and poise during the VMA awards.  Starting with her red carpet style, she was the consummate fashion forward dresser and one of the only ones who didn’t wear black.  Topping of the evening she acknowledged Taylor Swift after Kayne West’s disgraceful antics during her previous acceptance speech.   How tacky.  He showed no class, but the ladies did prevail and all ended well.

O.k. enough of that, let’s analyze Alicia Key’s outfit…AH, hum…..You know I’m all about balance and proportion.  So here’s a great lessson for those of you who want to wear short dresses/skirts and cage shoes….Can you see how off balance she looks?  There’s not alot attractive about what’s going on here.  I have a vision of a diamond walking down the street. 

Look at the difference between Beyonce’s outfit (and shoes).  The two ladies are not all that different in shapes, Beyonce’s legs just keep going with her beautiful black pumps.  Alicia’s legs are cut off right from under her with those aweful cage shoes.  Beyonce has hips too, she has even accentuated them with the flounce around the hipline only your eyes don’t stay there. 

Her monochromatic look and the deep ”v” give fluidity to the whole look.  Alicia has no cutout or neckline features that detract from her short skirt or hipline.  All you see is the dress, the bubbles and how short it is.

Here’s your “lessons in style“:  before you are all over the “cage” look make sure you take a good look at how others will see you.  Are your legs really long and shapely.   If you are “hippy” make sure you balance the upper and lower portions of your body with slimming techniques.  Give the eye something else to look at through color, shapes and fit and remember:

“Look good, feel great and have fun doing it!”

 

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The Journey Begins

Style Camp August 2009Here are our latest “graduates” from Style Camp in August.  These ladies come from all walks of life and all want to achieve the same result…..Individual Style!  It is always a great pleasure to share the Style Camp experience.

It is my hope that Style Camp is just the beginning of great things to come in so many ways.  Style Camp for many is the start of understanding what true style is.  We start with a simple questionnaire and from there the discovery begins. 

It’s fun, it’s no doubt educational, but most of all it is a start of a journey that can lead to so many great things.  I have had people share their experiences after camp is over.  That’s the real blessing in it all.  Here are some of my recent emails:

“Thanks for getting me on the road to finding my style!” S.C.
“today was worth every minute. Rarely is your experience greater than your expectations. ” D.H
” I went shopping in desperate hopes of finding anything decent to wear”  I was able to use my knowledge that you taught me and IT WORKED!”  I got some great pieces and I just know you would be proud of the selections! A.T.
“This has been a great experience to learn more about general style concepts then apply info to my current personal style!”  R.C
“Great Job Karen!  Worth the money, but more importantly worth the time. ”  V.B.
“I loved Style Camp” MJC

So, keep it up ladies and always remember:

“Look good, feel great and have fun doing it!”