10 Tips for a Better Wardrobe

When focusing on creating a true “working” wardrobe there are several things that must be done to ensure success!  Stay focused and give yourself time to learn how to build your best closet.  A great working wardrobe may take up to a year or more simply because of the seasons.  Check out these tips to a better wardrobe and you are sure to stay on track!

  1. When buying basic wardrobe items (suits, skirts, blouses, slacks & jackets) focus on solid colors.  Neutral shades are easier to mix and match and never go out of style.
  2. Knowing your natural skin tone will be your first clue to what neutrals are best for you.  A warm skin tone has gold undertones.  A cool skin tone has pink undertones. (warm colors have golden undertones such as orange, yellow, gold, rust and olive green-cool colors have blue undertones such as navy, purple and white)
  3. Stay predominately within your natural undertones for prints.
  4. Remember to balance stronger clothing colors with stronger makeup colors and softer clothing colors with softer makeup colors
  5. Your personal neutrals are best shoes and handbags (navy, black, brown, etc.)
  6. Don’t wear shoes that are a lighter color than the predominate color in your outfit.
  7. Gold or silver can be worn by anyone as long as you are wearing your correct makeup and wardrobe colors.
  8. Choose darker colors skins and leather belts in Winter and Fall and lighter, more fun in Spring and Summer.
  9. If you want to look taller, wear one color from head-to-toe
  10. Color impacts your appearance most when it is worn at the face.  Therefore if you are considered a “cool” season, touches of warm can be worn best when used as accessories or anything not closet to the face.  Similarly, touches of cool can be added to a “warm” season if it is not worn at the face.

A better wardrobe doesn’t just “happen”.  It is a deliberate effort that creates harmony in your closet and life!  You will reap the rewards of a job well done and always:

“Look Good, Feel Great and Have FUN Doing It!”

How to Build a Core Wardrobe

ClosetRegardless of whether or not the economy is booming, many people continue to struggle getting a wardrobe together. It really is easy to create a great wardrobe without spending more money! In fact, with as few as 9 pieces in your wardrobe you can create 20 outfits.

It’s all about choosing the right core pieces and an added side benefit is that it is a great way to stretch your budget dollars.  You’ll find yourself confident in your clothing knowing you are appropriately dressed for all occasions.   The most versatile core wardrobe begins with the following items:

  1. Two suits in your best neutral shade (solid) (4 pieces)
  2. Matching blouses (these can be patterned or solid) (2 pieces)
  3. Jacket or cardigan in black or navy (1 piece)
  4. Skirt or slacks in black or navy (1 piece)
  5. Blouse in white or cream (your best color) (1 piece)

With these 9 pieces you can mix and match 20 outfits!  Build your core as your budget allows and keep in mind your goal.   You don’t have to have the core all at once!

The key to a confident core and making it work is to focus on solid colors and year round fabrics such as worsted wool, crepe, rayon & rayon blends, wool gabardine and cotton.  This minimizes your costs and adds greater versatility to your closet.  Once you have achieved success in your core, don’t forget to split them up so you can see the potential that is there!  You will find that all of your pieces will mix and match beautifully and you will always:

“Look Good, Feel Great and Have FUN Doing It!”

The Right Swimwear for YOU – Will You Sink or Swim

043Ah, Summer…About this time every year, I start to cringe as I ponder the swimsuit season. Should I or should I not slide into a bathing suit this season.

The older I get the harder it is to walk on the beach or deck of a pool without some extra covering. Gravity takes it’s toll on everyone, so what’s a woman to do to find the right suit to wear in the sun and on the beach.

Don’t let yourself sink to the bottom of the pool in outdated swimwear that no longer works. Because technological advances have made swimwear better, you can find a suit that will cinch here lift there.

Buy the right suit for you; look for features in that suit that will support your body and will find yourself swimmingly beautiful and confident on the beach this summer!

Land’s End has long featured great suits that work.  Now they are adding technology to their bevy of offerings.  Check out these features and make sure that you note where “your” figure needs enhancing.

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There’s one that’s sure to make you:

Look Good, Feel Great and Have FUN.

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When is Good-Good Enough?

This thought came to me this morning when I was trying to write some text for the new StyleYOUniversity site.  Have you ever really thought about this?

This question honestly has everything to do with EVERYTHING.  It works for writing a book, buying a car, house, setting financial goals and yes, even creating a wardrobe.

You see we can always make things better.  It’s when you are in the process of achieving these goals that if you sidestep and change course barriers to success begin.

It’s one thing to be working toward a goal, but something altogether different when change keeps getting in the way of achieving that goal.  Having pondered this long and hard I came up with these ideas that may help you move forward, achieve that goal and allow yourself to tweak things along the way.

  1. Begin with the end in mind (know what the end looks like to you and define it).
  2. Back up from there and physically write down everything that you think it will take to get there.  Do you need shoes, suits, dresses, lingerie, hangers, shoe boxes, etc.  EVERYTHING.
  3. Decide what your current budget will allow?
  4. How much do you think it will cost to get there?
  5. When do you want to have it complete?
  6. Know what change is acceptable (you may not be able to purchase all the shoes or the color you have decided to work on isn’t available  right now)
  7. Be flexible with your date of completion (you may find that “life events” get in the way-it’s o.k. to move the date)
  8. Know that it is a process.
  9. Set weekly, monthly and quarterly goals based on your personal time frame.
  10. Do have fun with it, because it is all a learning process and the more invested in the process you are, the better the outcome will be!

Above all, lighten up a little bit.  Don’t be harsh on yourself when life gets in the way, just stay focused and look at the list again and check things of along the way.  You’ll feel wonderful about the process and you’ll:

“Look Good, Feel Great and Have FUN Doing It!”

Travel Smart – Get Organized

Summer vacations are fast approaching and with them comes the angst of wondering what to take.  While you may acknowledge that it is not necessary to take your entire closet, sometimes it is difficult to figure out just what to leave home and what should go with you.  Just as you might prepare of a holiday party, planning and preparation (focus) are keys to stress free dressing while away.

Check in with these 5 easy tips before you go to organize yourself before you go and you will look good, feel great and have fun each day!

  1. Note how many days you will be gone and the number of outfits you will need. Pay special attention to any activities that may require a different outfit (hiking, touring, etc)
  2. Next assemble your outfits based on your activity. This will allow you to put accessories, shoes, lingerie together with each piece
  3. Go neutral with your basic pieces.  Choose black, khaki, brown, or navy for your neutral core.
  4. Add an accent color.  Choose a color that you love in different styles and add it to the mix with your neutral.
  5. Keep your shoes in your neutral color and add 2 different heel heights ( pumps and flats for winter sandals or flats for summer)

These are the basic guidelines for creating a wonderful working wardrobe while traveling.  Always take your jeans and a crisp white shirt.  It’s a given these days that your denim can be dressed up or dressed down for many occasions.  A simple wrap and costume jewelry in your favorite accent color adds panache and style to the mix and you’re good to go.

Just remember to keep it simple.  For more effortless packing tips, read 6 Steps for Stress Free Travel

Next we’ll discuss traveling with children!  How in the world do you do it? Smile!

“Look Good, Feel Great and Have FUN Doing It!”

Uber STYLE-The Art of Being Who You Are

I love words.  I especially love expressive words.  The word “uber” for instance feels so good when you say it.

Uber has its roots in German language dating back to the 1800’s when philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche coined the term “ubermensch” to describe a higher state he felt men might aspire (superior men).  It was brought to the  United States and in the 1930’s  and used in the story of Superman, the iconic American hero.  It is through this association that the term “uber” carries much of it sense of  irresistible superiority!

In today’s pop culture uber is used interchangeably with the word super, but means so much more that.  Uber has a sense of excellence and superiority-confidence if you will that just can’t be conveyed by using any other word.

Katharine Hepburn and Paul Newman are arguably two of the most recognizable faces.  Both  had “uber style”. Passionate and opinionated, they always knew “who” they were.  Uber Style is the true sense of being who you are, no matter what.

Knowing who you are starts within, a deep connection with your roots and a very real, spiritual sense of belonging.  Many have an innate sense of knowing “who” they are.  For most though, this connection develops over time as we try on styles, watch our mentors or connect with icons and those we respect.

Uber Style is NOT a copy of someone else. Uber Style is YOU!  How do you get there if it’s doesn’t come naturally?  (remember style can be taught!)  It’s not difficult; but to learn what your style is you must connect with it on every level.  I encourage you to become more cognitively aware of what you really do like.  Ask yourself these questions:

  1. What music do you enjoy on most days?
  2. What style does your home life reflect?
  3. What cars do you admire?
  4. What are your favorite colors?
  5. What characteristics do you most admire in a person?

If you have difficulty answering these questions, simply ask yourself these questions in the opposite way.  What is it that you DON’T like? Most people can tell you immediately what colors, music, cars or decorating styles they don’t like.Send us your ideas. Who do you think has Uber STYLE today and follow us as we continue to discuss how you can get Uber STYLE!

Finally, browse magazines; not just fashion magazines, but business magazines and pop culture magazines as well. This will help you really connect on a more cognitive level with who you are and how you want the world to perceive you.  Have fun with it, create a notebook out of it and add to it over time. You will see even you can have Uber STYLE and remember:

“Look Good, Feel Great and Have FUN Doing It!”

Wardrobe Creation – Plan and Commit

Reflecting on the events I have attended over the past several weeks reminds me the importance planning and commitment play in our success.  I participated in both High School and College graduations in addition to formal Courts of Honor where  the Boy Scouts highest achievement, the Eagle Award honored 4 young men.

You don’t get to walk across the stage, and receive your diploma without some level of commitment somewhere along the line.  A Boy Scout doesn’t achieve the rank of Eagle without a high degree of planning and commitment.  You don’t create success overnight-even though the term “an overnight success” may lead you to believe this.  A successful wardrobe is not created in one shopping trip.  There’s always a plan to your wardrobe success.

The Boy Scout motto “Be Prepared” says it all.  I’m committed to my business, but sometimes I get off track because the plan is not being followed.  So it is in life, to be successful and find joy that comes from success, planning comes first.  Planning doesn’t guarantee your success though.  You must be committed and go at it systematically day by day, week by week, month by month and so on.

As we move through life we “graduate” from certain stages and find that we can often get lost in the detail.  Life gets in the way and often we lose the path that was so clearly defined.  There’s always a way to find your path back!  Many women come to me when they have lost their way and are trying to get back the style they once felt connected to.

Beginning their “Journey to Style” is a way to that will help them create a plan and systematically create the wardrobe that works for the life they lead today!  Planning and commitment go hand in glove.  My mother always said “measure twice, cut once” and it is true.  Before you purchase that next clothing item ask yourself these questions:

Does it fit my body?
Does it flatter my body?
Does it feel really good on me?
Is it part of my overall plan in my closet?
Will it go with at least 3 other things in my closet?

If the answer to these questions is “yes”, then you can feel confident in adding it to your wardrobe NOW!

Commit to creating a plan for your success by building a wardrobe that works for you and you will find that you always:

“Look Good, Feel Great and Have FUN Doing It!”

Stuff in Your Closet

DSCN2982My daughter graduated recently from college.  It was a hallmark event in her life.  Alton Brown, famed author and food critic was the commencement speaker.  He  offered his thoughts in a non-traditional manner to challenge the graduates.

Thought provoking as it was, there was one key point I wanted to talk about. “ Stuff!”

He challenged the graduates with regard to collecting “stuff”.  Stuff is the trappings of life.  “Things” in life we feel we can’t live without – cellphones, ipods, fancy cars, shoes, leather, fur, diamonds, etc.

It’s not that you shouldn’t have “stuff” or even that you don’t deserve stuff, but “stuff” isn’t what makes us happy!

He next asked who was in debt. A full 2/3 of the audience raised their hands! Do you think that it is because they have already acquired “stuff” in their lives?

DSCN2928I think as a parent, we may have done our children a disservice by giving them so much “stuff” already. I know that I’m a bit guilty of that.Even though my children have always worked, they have never known what it feels like to truly “need” something.

As Americans, we have helped build a booming business in third world countries because they are reselling all of our “stuff”. On some level this makes me happy, but honestly do we really need so much “stuff”?

My childhood best friend lost her home in a fire recently and she has lost all her “stuff“. I would bet you anything that the only real loss that she feels right now are the photos of her children that act as reminders of their younger days.  That’s the “stuff” happiness is made of.

What, you might ask does this have to do with clothes? I’d say A LOT! I starts with a little bit of “retail therapy” then morphs into other things.

The older I get the less “stuff” I want.  I do love some of my things as they make me happy-my ipod with music on when I walk and I really like my bread machine!  But as Coco Chanel said, and I am really trying hard to abide with “less is more” and it’s not because of the economy either!

Each season I encourage my clients to clean out the clutter and rid themselves of some of their things that no longer work in their closet. So as you part with some of your “stuff” ask yourself why you are getting rid of it.  It’s not really “retail therapy” if it doesn’t  look good on you, make you feel your very best and feel really great next to your body!

If you want to “shop your closet” join me on my next webinar and learn how.  Register Here

“Look Good, Feel Great and Have Fun Doing It”

What is Protecting Your Blind Side in the Closet

I recently saw The Blind Side for a second time.  Normally, I don’t watch movies more than once, but I did and realized that I enjoyed it just as much.   This time though, I was more  aware of what the actors were saying and wanted to share some thoughts with you.

Do you ever consider  protecting your “blind side” ?  Do you even know what your blind side is?  Protecting your “blind side” means knowing your weaknesses and surrounding yourself with a team to support you.  As an image consultant and style coach, I  teach you to use clothing as part of your support team.  What are you doing to develop your team in the closet?

If you follow my posts, you know that I have talked often of building a closet based on 3 things: core, accents and accessories. In a business casual world, it’s easy to forget the basic building blocks and suddenly you find there’s nothing to work with.  The foundation crumbles and nothing is protecting your “blind side”.  You walk into the closet and say those dreaded words, “I have nothing to wear”.

Sandra Bullock is the mother, Lee Ann Touhy, who steps in to help an young man grow up.  He only has a bag of clothes and she takes him shopping one day.  Having difficulty making a decision about what shirt to buy “Lee Ann” says :

“well, there’s one thing I know and that is if you don’t like it in the store, you sure as heck aren’t going to like it when you get it  home”.

WOW, I thought, wonder if anyone else really heard that?  I certainly didn’t the first time around.

So, I ask you, “what’s protecting your blind side”? What are you doing to build a foundation so that you  are protected when you need it most?  Do you have a solid core to work with?  Are you focusing on building accents in your closet and finally do you have accessories that give your blind side some umph?

If you don’t protect your “blind side”, if you don’t build your core, your blind side is vulnerable and you’ll fall victim to being a style mistake.  Get your “blind side” protected and you’ll:

“Look Good, Feel Great and Have FUN Doing It!”

Read How to Build a Wardrobe Based on Purpose

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See Style – Get Style

DSCN2386 Sometimes what’s in your closet just feels boring and has no umph.  Sometimes you just can’t see the “forest through the trees” as they say.  Pieces have been hanging in there for so long you can no longer “see” the possibilities that it holds in an up to date look.

For me this happens toward the end of every season.  I’m tired of it and ready to move on.  For this reason alone, it is important to try and have just the current season’s clothes in eye view every day.  We all want a change, something new but it even more difficult when the DSCN2396uniform of the day is in front of us 365 days a year.DSCN2395

I was in another closet last week and discovered 3 pretty normal but interesting pieces.  After pulling out these pieces and organizing the rack so I could see what was there, new opportunities came rushing in.

So as you clean your closet and transition to the upcoming season do these three things to help you “see” the possibilities.

  1. Move out of season out of your closet
  2. Arrange your clothes light to dark left to dark
  3. Separate suits and hang tops and bottoms separately in order as in #2

It is really just that easy to :

“Look Good, Feel Great and Have FUN Doing It!”