Obsess the Dress

It has been many years since the dress has been as popular as it is today.  Currently fashion is having an obsession with the dress.  I have said it for the last few years-now is the time to buy a dress if you haven’t already done so. 

Dresses are so feminine and can hide a multitude of sins, but not every dress is the right dress for you.  Do you know how to shop for a dress that will flatter and fit your body line and proportion?  Remember, your goal in dressing is to create the illusion of a perfect shape (the hourglass) through balance and proportion.  This is achieved not only by the shape of the dress but also by varying the color (dark on top and light on bottom or vice-versa). 

Check out the simple tips below to balance your proportions and you will look good and feel great in the latest styles.

If your body line is:

Rectangle (straight) you have little definition between your bust, waist and hip measurements.  A fitted sheath will play up your lines.  Baby-dolls and A-line styles will help create some curves.  Choose dresses that have some detail, embellishments or gathers at the top to add some dimension. Note this dress creates more of a waistline.

Triangle (pear) you are fuller at the hips and bottom and smaller on the top.  Choosing dresses with fitted, open-neck or strapless tops will enhance your upper body and draw the eye upward (away from the hips).  Wearing darker colors on the bottom, lighter on top will create the illusion of more width on top (two-tone), while A-line shapes will help hide a wider hipline.  Be sure to not go too full with the skirt or it will add bulk.  Note this fabric drapes smoothly over the hip area without adding extra width.

Hourglass (figure 8 ) Curves are your asset; you have full bust, hipline and a defined waist.  Choose wraps, and dresses with fitted waists.  The hourglass is a classic, feminine form that can wear many styles.  Focus on drawing attention to your waist.  The wrap dress cinches in the waist while the fabric accentuates curves without hugging them.

Diamond/Circle (apple) Weight is carried around your middle.  There is little or no definition to your waist.  Baby doll and empire waists are best for you.  Take attention away from your middle and allow fabric to drape smoothly down not hugging your mid-section.  Focus on necklines that draw the eye upward to your face.  Often this shape has gorgeous legs, so don’t hide your beautiful gams!  A-line and fuller skirted looks can give the illusion of a more defined waist.  Note this dress falls away from the tummy area and the neckline is open drawing the eye upward.

Inverted Triangle (full bust) you have a well defined bust that is fuller than your hips and bottom.  Select necklines (V and U) that will draw the eye downward for a balanced more slimming look.  Lighter color blocking on the bottom/darker on top will give the illusion a balanced look.  Choosing A-lines and fuller skirts will balance you out and give you a more hourglass appearance.  This neckline and simple fullness at the waist draws the eye down balancing the top to the bottom.

Go and obsess the dress and remember look good, feel great and have fun doing it!

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Posted by: Karen Hughes, Founder of Image Assets, an Image Consulting Firm serving the Alpharetta and Metro Atlanta areas. As a seasoned certified image consultant, Karen follows a simple philosophy: educate, empower, and enrich the lives of her clients. Her philosophy is enmeshed throughout her practice and can be observed in her workshops, clinics, and one-on-one consultations. Her energetic and interactive style makes her a sought-after training resource for organizations and individuals alike. Even the most difficult topics seem effortless for Karen as she tackles such challenges as professional etiquette, business dress personal image and body shape

6 Steps For a Stress Free Travel Wardrobe

Have you ever been on a trip with someone you swear packed their entire closet?  Do you seem to forget something on your trip because you didn’t know or couldn’t decide what to take?  Travel will soon be in high gear and with current travel restrictions you may find that you have added stress just trying to pack for your trip.   

Perhaps you are planning an exotic vacation or just a weekend trip.  Maybe you are going on an extended vacation, or just jaunt to the relatives.  Regardless of where you are going, the rules do not change when planning your wardrobe.  Create stories, vignettes, capsules or ensembles and remember these words:  core and signature color as you begin to pack.  It will make your travel style effortless and easy.    

 Core Color is a solid neutral base to build your looks around.  It gives support to the other actors in the story.   Signature Color is a color that you look good and feel great in.  Working with your core and signature colors will give you flexibility to change your looks as the day changes.  No, you won’t have your entire closet, but you will enjoy a stress free, worry free style wardrobe while away.  It is funny but true; less is really more if you follow these six travel tips. 

  1.  Select 5 pieces in a neutral solid core color for your foundation
    1-Slack
    1-Short
    1-Jacket
    1-Skirt
    1-Jeans (white or dark denim)
  2. Select Novelty Pieces-add your signature color
    1-Raincoat or sweater  (outer layering piece)
    1-White shirt or blouse
    1-White t-shirt
    5- Tops in different styles in  signature color (3/4 length, tank, sleeveless, etc)
    1-Print top in signature color (optional)
    1-Dress (optional-in core or signature color)
    1-Pashmina , wrap or scarf in signature color
  3. 1 workout or comfortable lounging  ensemble
  4. Accessories in signature color (scarves, handbag, necklace, bangles, etc)
  5. 3 belts (1 dressy, 1 casual, 1 trendy)
  6. 3-4 Shoes (walking or exercise, dressy, casual flats, sandals or loafers core color)

 It goes without saying that you will know to pack sleepwear, lingerie, and toiletries.  Once you have pulled your wardrobe looks (vignettes) together, you will see how easy it is to mix and match your core pieces to create different mood altering vignettes. 

Going on a trip longer than two weeks?  No problem, just add one more signature color!  No matter what the occasion or where you are going, you will feel dressed appropriately.  Add a few accessories and be dressed for the evening.  Change your shoes and be dressed for a day of sight seeing.   It is easy, effortless and you’ll look good, feel great, and have fun doing it!

 P.S.  Don’t forget your camera to record all your great new looks and fun you’ll have!

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Posted by: Karen Hughes, Founder of Image Assets, an Image Consulting Firm serving the Alpharetta and Metro Atlanta areas. As a seasoned certified image consultant, Karen follows a simple philosophy: educate, empower, and enrich the lives of her clients. Her philosophy is enmeshed throughout her practice and can be observed in her workshops, clinics, and one-on-one consultations. Her energetic and interactive style makes her a sought-after training resource for organizations and individuals alike. Even the most difficult topics seem effortless for Karen as she tackles such challenges as professional etiquette, business dress personal image and body shape

Finding Your Signature Color

Color elicits a powerful emotional response.  Branding specialists know this, advertising agencies know this, and professional color consultants know this.  It can make us eat more, buy more, sell more.  Do you know the emotional response that you obtain when you wear color?  What did you wear to the last formal event, funeral or serious meeting?  What was the core color you wore?  More than likely  it was something dark and somber.  Similarly, what did you wear to the last party or wedding you attended?

 Understanding what color can do for you can set you apart from the competition. It can help you raise the bar, calm you, brand you and make you more memorable.  Take for example UPS.  What color comes to mind when you hear the name UPS-brown, right?  The slogan “what does brown do for you” is secondary to the brown logo.  The color brown, is the color of the earth.  It symbolizes stability, sturdiness, reliability.  It’s chocolate and who doesn’t love chocolate? 

Companies spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to develop their brand identity and selecting a signature color is significant to the success of their overall brand.  I once new a business owner that decided her “signature” color was red.  Please use caution when wearing red.  Red has been scientifically proven to be the most penetrating and energetic color.  Remember where you see red-stop signs, emergency lights.  Yes, it is a power tie, and worn in bits can be quite powerful.  Worn too much, it can be very exhausting and send danger signals to your audience.

What is your brand identity, your signature color?  Your signature color doesn’t just happen; you shouldn’t just decide one day to embrace a color without knowing how it looks physically on you and makes you feel.  A signature color must be identified based on both your personal branding as well as the inherent, natural personal characteristics you were born with.  Do you have pink, yellow, olive, or brown undertones in your skin?  What color is your hair? 

Color is 3 dimensional.  To truly develop your signature color you must know all dimensions of your personal characteristics.  A professional color analyst can help you determine color palette.  Only then you can begin to play with colors to see what your signature color can be.

Before going to a professional color analyst, a simple way to narrow down your choices is to ask yourself the following questions: ( black or white are not options!)

  1. What color do you get the most compliments on?
  2. What color makes you feel really good when you wear it?
  3. What color do you wear when you need to be powerful

 Be descriptive when you answer these questions.  Is it blue or navy blue, green or lime green, orange or red orange?  Once you have narrowed down your choices, begin to wear these colors in a variety of places and see what happens. 

 Everyday we are surrounded by color.  The seasons give us bursts of color that calm us and excite us.  What’s your signature color?  Have fun with color, pause to give color the status it deserves.  Understand what your signature color might do for you and see if it elevates the emotional response you get when you are communicating with others.

 And remember to always look good, feel good and have fun doing it!

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Posted by: Karen Hughes, Founder of Image Assets, an Image Consulting Firm serving the Alpharetta and Metro Atlanta areas. As a seasoned certified image consultant, Karen follows a simple philosophy: educate, empower, and enrich the lives of her clients. Her philosophy is enmeshed throughout her practice and can be observed in her workshops, clinics, and one-on-one consultations. Her energetic and interactive style makes her a sought-after training resource for organizations and individuals alike. Even the most difficult topics seem effortless for Karen as she tackles such challenges as professional etiquette, business dress personal image and body shape

Serendipity, Synchronicity, Coincidence or Plain Luck?

 In the 1960′s life was all about free love, peace and all things serendipitous.  In the early 2000′s life was about synchronicity with Purpose Driven Life, The Law of Attraction and Vision Boards.  Even before this Norman Vincent Peale published a book on positive thinking (1952) The Power of Positive ThinkingIs it coincidence or just plain luck that when we focus on what we love and give back to the world, the world in turn is responsive and gives back to us? 

I use to say my brother was “lucky”.  It seemed as if he was born with an uncanny ability to be at the right place at the right time.  My mother use to say “you make luck happen”.  I didn’t understand this until I was older and began setting goals for myself.   Do you know anyone who you’ve said is “lucky”?  Maybe they aren’t really lucky but more perceptive  and simply move to action more quickly.

What kind of person do you consider yourself to be?  Do you find that your life is “in sync” right now?  I wrote about balance earlier in the year.   When things are in balance, we don’t feel resistance, we’re happy with the way things are.  Change is forced when our life is out of sync - off balance.  Think of the beautiful results that occur in an oyster from the constant abrasion.

How is your job going?  Are you where you want to be in your career or just floating along?  What impact are you making with your first impressions? Are your first impressions opening doors for you? 

Most image consultants get calls from individuals and companies when something is NOT working.  Don’t wait for your life to get out of sync to force you to change.  Embrace making small steps to create synchronicity!  Step it up and make room for your success!  

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Posted by: Karen Hughes, Founder of Image Assets, an Image Consulting Firm serving the Alpharetta and Metro Atlanta areas. As a seasoned certified image consultant, Karen follows a simple philosophy: educate, empower, and enrich the lives of her clients. Her philosophy is enmeshed throughout her practice and can be observed in her workshops, clinics, and one-on-one consultations. Her energetic and interactive style makes her a sought-after training resource for organizations and individuals alike. Even the most difficult topics seem effortless for Karen as she tackles such challenges as professional etiquette, business dress personal image and body shape

Style and Wardrobe Boot Camps

Boot camps are popular ways to get intensive training in everything from exercise to training your child to sleep.  Now you can even go to “Style” or “Wardrobe” Boot Camp.  Here at Image Assets, we have developed a full day training to help you develop your unique style.

To be effective and work for you, there are several things that must happen in a “style” or “wardobe” boot camp. 

  • Indepth questions about your personal style
  • Individual reflection of your style preferences
  • Analysis of these 2 steps to see what is in alignment
  • Body line and proportion discovery
  • Working out a formula

There really is a “method” to figuring it out.  You can put a formula together to have a wardrobe that works for you in all areas of your life.  Follow the formula and check in seasonally (two times a year) to make sure you are presenting your true self.  Congratulate yourself on how well you are doing.  As Tim Gunn says, “style requires work”.

If you are not one to want to work at the process, there are stylists, image consultants, and personal shoppers whose job it is to make the process easier for you. 

Remember, what I always say “look good, feel great and have fun doing it!”

Find a style or wardrobe boot camp

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Posted by: Karen Hughes, Founder of Image Assets, an Image Consulting Firm serving the Alpharetta and Metro Atlanta areas. As a seasoned certified image consultant, Karen follows a simple philosophy: educate, empower, and enrich the lives of her clients. Her philosophy is enmeshed throughout her practice and can be observed in her workshops, clinics, and one-on-one consultations. Her energetic and interactive style makes her a sought-after training resource for organizations and individuals alike. Even the most difficult topics seem effortless for Karen as she tackles such challenges as professional etiquette, business dress personal image and body shape.

The Hype on Hosiery

Last year Charla Krupp published a book called How Not to Look Old. For the most part I agreed with all of the hints on looking “young and hip”. There is one exception though and I believe that she has actually gone on record recanting or revamping her statement. Her YH statement on hosiery was seen as a blanket statement of not wearing nude stockings.

She stated in her book that there is no quicker way to look “OL” (old lady) than to wear thick nude hosiery. While I agree that thick hosiery is very dating, I want to make some observations about hosiery in general. Most women purchase substandard hosiery as a necessity while at the grocery store between tossing in the Kleenex and bar soap. Its texture is stretchy and made out of mesh and doesn’t match closely to their skin tone. This simple fact is the biggest problem with wearing hosiery period.

Most women beyond that age of 30 begin to show signs of stress on their legs through spider veins, bruising or even varicose veins. The only way to minimize the appearance of these often unsightly characteristics is through surgery, makeup, or yes, hosiery. So I ask you to evaluate your own personal situation and assess how your legs really look.

  • Do you have legs that are free of any obvious signs of stress or markings? (Veins, scarring, freckles, etc)
  • Are your legs shaved and well cared for (not dry and scaly)
  • Are they pale or tan?

If you have passed the test above, congratulations! You may be a candidate for baring your legs! Should you choose not to wear hosiery, my recommendation is to check in with what is acceptable in your business. In some corporate, banking, or legal environments, it still may not be perceived as professional to go bare-legged. I like to draw the analogy to men not wearing to-the-knee socks. Do you really want to see their hairy legs when they are crossed?

What are your options when you want to wear hosiery? The current trend is to wear the sheerest of sheer and match your hemline as close as possible. Black is best. If you want to wear nude, wear fishnets but make sure the net is small. Opaque are great in the winter but leave the colors to the younger generation. Stay safe with black, brown, navy and gray; and make sure they are a light weight fabric. Nothing will add more weight than a thick pair of opaque stockings.

So that’s the hype on hosiery for now. I’m sure it will change in another season or two. For now you can go bare but make sure you have invested in a good razor, body lotion and self-tanning cream.

Walk proudly and look good, feel great, and have fun doing it!

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Posted by: Karen Hughes, Founder of Image Assets, an Image Consulting Firm serving the Alpharetta and Metro Atlanta areas. As a seasoned certified image consultant, Karen follows a simple philosophy: educate, empower, and enrich the lives of her clients. Her philosophy is enmeshed throughout her practice and can be observed in her workshops, clinics, and one-on-one consultations. Her energetic and interactive style makes her a sought-after training resource for organizations and individuals alike. Even the most difficult topics seem effortless for Karen as she tackles such challenges as professional etiquette, business dress personal image and body shape

How to Find a Swimsuit to Flatter your Figure

Ah, bathing suit season.  Every year women the world over have angst over buying the best suit for their body.  The decision to even wear a bathing suit can be a daunting one-especially as gravity takes hold and the body contorts itself into unrecognizable shapes.  To help you take some of that fear and angst before you go into the shops this season, why not consider looking for suits that will give your assets their best advantage.

Remember it is all about balance and drawing the eye to your best features.  If all else fails, spend good money on a beautiful sheer tunic and a wonderful pair of pool shoes!  The shadows and illusions it creates will be a style statement that cannot be missed! 

P.S. Don’t forget the sunscreen!

Balance and Maximize a Small Bust

 

  • Wearing ruffles, shirring, padding and boning on top will give you visual weight
  • Wear patterns (polka dots, paisley) and embellishments on top
  • Wear bolder colors on top and darker on bottom

Balance and Minimize a Large Bust

   

  • Be sure that you do not go too small. Spilling out of your top will actually make you look larger.
  • Bathing suits generally run 2 sizes smaller than other clothing
  • Select a top with underwire and support (some suits are sized by cup size)
  • Your straps should not act as the ‘support’ for your upper body just prevent you from sagging
  • Do Not wear the following: strapeless, string bikini, demi-bras, and key hole type

   Balance and Minimize a Larger Tummy

     

  • Criss-cross under the bustline minimizes the waist
  • Wear a busy print
  • Use a bold pattern and detail at the waist
  • Built in tummy control
  • Wearing a tankini will be better for you than a bikini
  • Be wary of the ‘muffin top’ if you have separate bottoms

Balance and Minimize Wider Hips 

     

  • Boy shorts are NOT for you
  • Pass on prints and ruffles below the waist
  • High cut leg will narrow wider thighs
  • Empire waist draws eye up
  • Mix and match brighter top to darker bottom

 
  

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Posted by: Karen Hughes, Founder of Image Assets, an Image Consulting Firm serving the Alpharetta and Metro Atlanta areas. As a seasoned certified image consultant, Karen follows a simple philosophy: educate, empower, and enrich the lives of her clients. Her philosophy is enmeshed throughout her practice and can be observed in her workshops, clinics, and one-on-one consultations. Her energetic and interactive style makes her a sought-after training resource for organizations and individuals alike. Even the most difficult topics seem effortless for Karen as she tackles such challenges as professional etiquette, business dress personal image and body shape.